I cannot give you the formula for success but I can give you the formula for failure which is try to please everyone.
-Editor Herbert Bayard Swope
Everywhere you turn there is someone who has expectations of you. Even a robust attempt to please everyone will end up mostly in failure. I am not sure I have ever totally pleased anyone. I’ve tried to be a good son, good brother, good husband, good father, good employee, and good leader. The only thing I am confident I have done really well is being a grandfather. I also try to be a good writer since writing is the closest I have ever come to having a gift. At this point in my life I have an attitude that many may find difficult or unacceptable. My current attitude is that I am doing the best I can and if it’s not good enough for you, you can get over it. I believe most people, including myself, are generally doing the best they can to be all they should be. I don’t expect perfection in myself or others. The older I get, the more tolerant I am of human weakness. Life is difficult, those around us often expect a lot, and our ability to deliver can vary wildly on any given day. Abraham Lincoln once said, “You can please some of the people all of the time, all of the people some of the time, but you cannot please all of the people all of the time”. These are wise words from a wise man. I try to put my best self out there as much as I can with the hope I will make a positive difference in the world. Sometimes my less than best self makes an appearance and I hope that he does no harm. My advice is to not worry about pleasing people. I encourage you to focus on doing good. If you do good things you will please more people than you annoy. Actually I think annoying some people can be a good thing and I occasionally I take pleasure in doing that.